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Comments on: Moment https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284 A mid-life shrink raps about life, friendship, psychology, and politics Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:33:17 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1603 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:33:17 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1603 In reply to roughwighting.

Very insightful, your comment about “for the time being.” Thanks for writing.

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By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1602 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:31:34 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1602 In reply to Nancy Gump.

Thanks, Nancy. Yes, it’s the kind of moment that doesn’t fade. And by phone. We Skyped my eldest daughter, then living abroad, with the news we wished we didn’t have to share. I remember watching the blood drain out of her face. “I feel like I’m on another planet,” she said. I’m guessing that’s how you felt when you received such a call.

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By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1601 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:29:07 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1601 In reply to Nancy MacPhee.

Wow, Nancy! I bet that’s etched. So thankful to learn it worked out well.

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By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1600 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:27:52 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1600 In reply to wendyj59.

Sorry about that, Wendy. I’ve had the same reaction from others who don’t know me from reading this (of course, that was my writerly intent but not easy for the reader on a person-to-person level). I’m glad your husband recovered. It’s amazing to me how etched in our brain these things are.

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By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1599 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:26:14 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1599 In reply to Marianne Lonsdale.

Thanks, Marianne.

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By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1598 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 04:25:54 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1598 In reply to hbksloss.

Well, I realize from your and others’ comments that of course you’d think this was current. Sorry about that! Building suspense at a price! You have had some heart- and time-stopping moments as well. They are always so indelibly etched. Thanks for writing.

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By: hbksloss https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1597 Tue, 08 Sep 2015 07:45:13 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1597 Your post freaked me out, I couldn’t tell until I was almost at the end that you were talking about three years ago versus a recent diagnosis. As for moments in my life when time stood still one of the best was the first few minutes after my son was born. It was completely silent in the room, as I picked up my baby for the first time. Another moment was when I was 12 and my parents were worried that my father might have lung cancer. I froze up and time seemed to so when they told me. During my cancer diagnosis and treatment it wasn’t until a few days after I received the new that time but wonky for me. Great question to ask. Congratulations on your 3rd anniversary!

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By: Marianne Lonsdale https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1596 Mon, 07 Sep 2015 14:01:23 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1596 Wow, powerful piece, I can feel the tension and fear throughout.

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By: wendyj59 https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1595 Mon, 07 Sep 2015 12:13:25 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1595 Oh goodness I should have skipped to the end first as I started reading this as a new diagnosis not having been here to follow your journey 3 years ago. Very relieved to realise it was a recollection.
One of the days that’s etched in my mind is 13th July 2005 – my husband was knocked off his bicycle and suffered a brain injury. Fortunately he too made a really good recovery but the details of that evening and the following days until we knew he was definitely going to be okay are still so clear to me.

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By: Nancy MacPhee https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1284&cpage=1#comment-1593 Mon, 07 Sep 2015 05:15:09 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1284#comment-1593 Amazing what is etched in our memory in vivid detail…23 years ago when they said my 4 month pregnant daughter probably would not live…she is now about to have her oldest daughter get married! A miracle woman who I learn from every day.
Nancy MacPhee

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