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Comments on: Is It Safe? https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1593 A mid-life shrink raps about life, friendship, psychology, and politics Mon, 20 Jun 2016 00:09:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1593&cpage=1#comment-1820 Mon, 20 Jun 2016 00:09:23 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1593#comment-1820 In reply to hbksloss.

Thanks for your thoughtful reply, Heidi. I have long thought that safety (or lack thereof) is primarily internal. And the externals are not always what one supposes. My daughters have traveled and lived abroad extensively–Europe, Russia, Latin America, Cuba, a little bit in the Middle East. They feel most at risk in the U.S., with its absolutely crazy gun culture not to mention rape culture.

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By: hbksloss https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1593&cpage=1#comment-1819 Sat, 18 Jun 2016 22:54:44 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1593#comment-1819 Safety is a hard one for me. Frankly I realized a few (4-5) years ago that I had rarely felt safe most of my life. I started working on this by using a mantra to remind myself that I am indeed both safe and loved (the two are very related in my mind). The world is a dangerous place, but I’m not sure if it is really any more dangerous now than it was decades (or even hundreds) of years ago. Having a 24 hour news cycle in our faces changes our perspective on fear in my opinion.

We just got back from a 5 week trip to Europe. Many friends commented that they wouldn’t go there now; our original plans were to spend 3 weeks in Turkey and we changed that time to Vienna, Austria because of the recent terrorist bombings there. But when I read books set long ago, in any part of the planet, I read about random acts of violence and death.

So where are we safe? I think it has to be cultivated from the inside out, along with keeping current on the State Department’s warnings .

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By: shrinkrapped https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1593&cpage=1#comment-1818 Wed, 15 Jun 2016 22:58:42 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1593#comment-1818 In reply to wendyj59.

Very thoughtful and wise words, Wendy. I certainly wouldn’t put Syria–or Iraq or Pakistan or Afghanistan on my travel itinerary either! It’s very sad how the hot spots keep increasing. My daughter’s high school track coach leads a small group of students on an in-depth tour of several European and one Middle Eastern country every other year. Syria and Lebanon used to be OK, and my daughter went to Egypt. I don’t think the most recent tours have hit any of those countries. Although come to think of it, all of the participants were most at risk not from violence erupting but from the coach’s driving! I am glad you were not in the wrong place at the wrong time a few weeks ago!

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By: wendyj59 https://shrinkrapped.com/?p=1593&cpage=1#comment-1817 Wed, 15 Jun 2016 07:46:02 +0000 http://r9f.352.myftpupload.com/?p=1593#comment-1817 Hard question. My daughter has been to Israel and went close to Syria. I wouldn’t advocate doing that now. I guess listen to Government travel advice and steer clear of any known risks. But you can never totally prepare. I walked past a group of youths a few weeks back on my route from bus stop to home. Less than half an hour later there was a shooting there. Gang related apparently. Sometimes you can just be in the wrong place at the wrong time but mostly you’re not and I don’t believe we should live our lives in fear of the “what ifs?” Won’t stop you worrying of course. I hope she has a safe trip if she goes.

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