It\u2019s been fifteen years since nineteen\u00a0men on a suicide mission turned the Twin Towers into smoldering rubble and America into a traumatized nation. I turned off the TV soon after the horror broke. Back then, I had no need of seeing the black billows of toxic smoke on continuous loop, the skyscrapers imploding again and again. Instead I fastened on stories of humanity\u2019s best in response to humanity\u2019s worst\u2014people standing in line for hours to donate blood; young kids emptying their piggybanks for the Red Cross; volunteers forming brigades to get food and supplies to rescue workers; the heroism of first responders; outpourings of sorrow and support from all over the globe.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to remember such\u00a0ordinary and extraordinary acts of kindness and courage now, obscured as they are by what often seems a world in flames. Those planes flew not only into the heart of financial and political power, but right into our collective psyche, fracturing a unifying moment into long-lasting reverberations of fear and vengeance.<\/p>\n

As we commemorate the trauma that has so shaped our new century, I\u2019ve found again a remnant of hope. The Red Bandanna: A Life. A Choice. A Legacy<\/a><\/em>, by Tom Rinaldi, recounts the story of Welles Crowther, a 24-year-old volunteer firefighter turned equities trader who led people from the 78^{th<\/sup> floor of the burning South Tower to safety, returning again and again to rescue others before dying himself when the building collapsed. His body was found six months later. Those whose lives he\u2019d saved remembered him for his red bandanna, something he\u2019d worn since his father gave it to him at age seven.<\/p>\n}

The NPR segment<\/a> in which I learned about the Man in the Red Bandanna featured Crowther\u2019s mother, Alison, speaking at the dedication of the National September 11 Memorial in 2014. Here’s what she said:<\/p>\n

\u201cIt is our greatest hope that when people come here and see Welles\u2019s red bandanna, they will remember how people helped each other that day, and we hope that they will be inspired to do the same in ways both big and small. This is the true legacy of September 11th.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Her words bring back to me what I felt in that briefest of pauses fifteen\u00a0years ago, when people\u2019s love and generosity and courage prevailed over hatred and fear.<\/p>\n

*<\/em><\/p>\n

What are your thoughts on this anniversary of 9\/11?<\/em><\/p>\n

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