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Why is it that regions of the country with a high proportion of people who rely on the safety net tend to elect politicians who vow to slash it?<\/p>\n
Many factors help explain this phenomenon. Differing world views and values, voter apathy, misinformation, and political manipulation of wedge issues all contribute. But the psychology of hostile dependency is also at play.<\/p>\n
A New York Times article<\/a> examines criticism of the safety net by those who increasingly depend on it. It notes that middle-class people who are angry at, but reliant on, government \u201care frustrated that they need help, feel guilty for taking it and resent the government for providing it.\u201d<\/p>\n Parents of adolescents may recognize this pattern. Teenagers, still dependent but longing to be free, often chafe against them. It\u2019s an age-appropriate version of biting the hand that feeds you.<\/p>\n Hostile dependency suffuses not just families but politics. \u201cHands off my Medicare!,\u201d shouted by anti-government protesters, echoes Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me & Cheryl to the Mall?<\/a><\/em>, a popular book for parents of teens.<\/p>\n This sheds new light on today\u2019s political landscape. America is a young country, with all the exuberance, idealism, frustration, and self-absorption of adolescence. Youth, combined with culturally ingrained tropes of freedom and self-reliance, define our national character.<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to integrate the equal imperatives of dependence and independence that define a well-balanced individual or society. Distinguishing between what fosters or stymies growth is not always clear. The task is further complicated by our national fixation on going it alone. We often mistake need for failure, abandonment for freedom.<\/p>\n Like the tumult of adolescence, perhaps this reactivity will subside as America moves toward a more secure identity in which interdependence is embraced rather than repudiated.<\/p>\n \n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Why is it that regions of the country with a high proportion of people who rely on the safety net tend to elect politicians who vow to slash it? Many factors help explain this phenomenon. Differing world views and values, … Continue reading